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  • HBRWTK: How much should you change for someone?

    How much do you think you should change your behaviour for your partner? I don't mean pretending to be a Ford fan when you're a complete diehard Holden person or something, but things like not smoking around them, toning down any foul language/swearing etc. Or should it be that you shouldn't have to change if they're your true love blahblahhippycrap
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  • #2
    ZERO change..............


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    • #3
      I pride myself on this is me take it or leave it.
      But there is a certain amount of common courtesy required.
      Like any thing time and place

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      • #4
        they should change to suit you
        "I think she's kinda sweet...but she makes her living catching cum in her mouth and i'm sensing that's a problem with you"

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        • #5
          Change because they want you to, or evolution of yourself?

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          • #6
            If someone changes it should be because they want to, not because someone else wants them to.

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            • #7
              I'm guessing you've met a female that (collectively)
              - doesn't want you to smoke around her
              - doesn't want you to do any form of psychoactive substance ever again
              - doesn't want you to say cunt around her
              - doesn't want you to look at pornography or masturbate
              - doesn't want you to look at other women at all
              - will check your phone regularly to see you are not straying from the path
              - will only have sex with the lights out
              - (as above) in missionary position
              - spits

              - wants you to tell every girl you meet within 2 minutes that you are taken.

              ..?
              Last edited by Maxo; 14-09-2009, 07:55 PM. Reason: 1 or 2 grumblings are usual for a female.. so i'm not writing them all off because of one factor here

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              • #8
                I was warming up to say 'zero change' but when I saw your example of quitting smoking, thought twice.

                If its a positive change that you would like to do anyway, and you do it for them as well as yourself, can't see the harm in the extra motivation.

                Should you change an aspect of yourself/your life you are comfortable with just for them? Fuck no.

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                • #9
                  Disclaimer: Don't actually smoke, was just an example Well it's good that you all think the same as me, but maybe that's what's contributing to my lack of womens .

                  Just on top of that Maxo, I hate women who don't drink, makes me feel like they're judging me all the time.
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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by jules_1972 View Post
                    ZERO change..............
                    Spoken like a true divorcee
                    I agree with this and Tbone

                    Bert
                    It's better to be thought stupid than open your mouth and remove all doubt

                    Pure speed in sixth gear on a 5,000 foot straightaway is one thing, but pure speed in third gear on a gravel-strewn, downhill, ess turn is quite another.
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                    • #11
                      So you are judging them because they don't drink?

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Desmogod View Post
                        Change because they want you to, or evolution of yourself?
                        Nicely put...

                        If you decide to "grow"...

                        Then its not the same as being told to change...

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Rich View Post
                          Nicely put...

                          If you decide to "grow"...

                          Then its not the same as being told to change...
                          im kind of going through this being 18 and all, plus theres this chicky im trying to keep in my good books

                          Mind you if you do play up once in a while ie, get insanely drunk or just have "fun" if they dont like it then tell them to jam a fat one, if they dont mind theyll get over it
                          anything fits with a run up

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                          • #14
                            20 year anniversary coming up next month - i didn't pretend to be anyone/anything else from the outset, hence didn't ever need to change.
                            Some people put on an act with others, it must be a real pain when they tire of the facade and need to do some weird slow-release morphing routine into who they really are.
                            Summary: Be yourself... you're one of a kind.

                            S.
                            Chuck Norris is 1/8th Cherokee. This has nothing to do with ancestry, the man ate a fucking Indian.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Desmogod View Post
                              So you are judging them because they don't drink?
                              Perhaps, but I'm just being myself Or maybe it's just the non-drinkers I know happen to be a certain sort.

                              Summary: Be yourself... you're one of a kind.
                              http://jupiterstravellers.org

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