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If it really bothered him so much, why didn't he defend himself? I mean, I can understand not wanting something up your ass, but honestly, if you can't gather the willpower/strength to stop a female stripper slipping you one up the clacker, maybe you'd be better in the role of taking dick anyway.
Originally posted by Dragunov-21
If you want me to answer a question, I want you to ask one that doesn't put words in my mouth that were never there.
If a man was playing this sex show game at a hen's night and "Accidently" slipped his pecker into her arse while playing some mock in-and-out, you wouldn't be telling her to harden up, take one like a girl and stop complaining because she liked it a little.
There is a big difference between knocking on the door and taking a look inside.
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"I was pretty upset at that stage,'' he said. "I could feel something was there.''
The best man told the court he scuffled with Naggs and told her to leave after the incident.
"She said it was just a joke, just a joke. I knew that there was something wrong down there.''
He said when he asked for his money back, the stripper threatened to call in bikies.
Ms Naggs' barrister Paul Higham told jurors if there had been penetration it was an accident.
"This is the case of the accidental rape, if there was one," he said.
Prosecutor Kieran Gilligan said the best man had booked Ms Naggs, who performed under the name Tiffany, for the buck's party on the Mornington Peninsula.
During Ms Naggs' performance, the best man's shirt was removed and she asked him to take off his jeans, Mr Gilligan said. The court heard he was naked from the knees up.
Mr Gilligan said Ms Naggs directed him to get on all fours before she strapped the sex toy to herself.
When he raised concerns about where she might put the sex toy, Mr Gilligan said she replied: "Not a problem, relax, it's only fun, I won't go there."
But the best man claims she penetrated him anyway, before telling him "don't worry, only you and I know'', the jury was told.
There is a big difference between knocking on the door and taking a look inside.
There's also a big difference in dynamics between man-woman and woman-man, in some cases. And between penis and sextoy, for that matter.
The fact is, he could have easily stopped it if he wanted to, and if all it too to "force" him was her telling him to relax and run with it, in front of all his mates, I really doubt whether she's got a case to answer besides making him uncomfortable.
Originally posted by Dragunov-21
If you want me to answer a question, I want you to ask one that doesn't put words in my mouth that were never there.
Doesn't no mean no?
Do you have to physically express no, too?
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I gotta say whats good for the gander should be good for the goose. If this situation was the other way around the defendant would have been found guilty.
Regardless of gender, if someone objects to a sexual act then he/she is a victim of rape.
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Doesn't no mean no?
Do you have to physically express no, too?
To throw someone in jail and slap them with the stigma of being a sex offender, you're damn right I think you should have to do more than he did to stop her, given how little effort/balls it would have taken to, oh, I dunno, move out of the way of a rubber dick, for instance?
I gotta say whats good for the gander should be good for the goose. If this situation was the other way around the defendant would have been found guilty.
Regardless of gender, if someone objects to a sexual act then he/she is a victim of rape.
Ok, guys, lets ask ourselves - how much emotional trauma is he really likely to have gone through, and how much could the stripper reasonably have expected her actions to cause him damage?
It's all very well and good to cite gender equality, but the fact is, in many ways, lads and lasses are very different. Think about what it would have meant for her to have been found guilty, and ask yourself if her actions really qualify for that.
Anyways, I'm heading OT, so I'll head off home lol.
Originally posted by Dragunov-21
If you want me to answer a question, I want you to ask one that doesn't put words in my mouth that were never there.
The fact is, he could have easily stopped it if he wanted to, and if all it too to "force" him was her telling him to relax and run with it, in front of all his mates, I really doubt whether she's got a case to answer besides making him uncomfortable.
You're 19 right? Ever been to a bucks?
He was going along with the show, set the boundary (and a fairly reasonable boundary at that), and she ignored it. Sounds like he stopped it immediately after that. How is it his fault?
Dragunov-21's arse is in play for anyone by the way, you heard it yourselves.
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